{"id":84,"date":"2026-01-25T20:35:35","date_gmt":"2026-01-25T20:35:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/?p=84"},"modified":"2026-01-25T20:35:35","modified_gmt":"2026-01-25T20:35:35","slug":"kur-vizitat-rrallohen-dhe-telefonatat-heshtin-cfare-po-i-largon-femijet-nga-prinderit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/?p=84","title":{"rendered":"Kur vizitat rrallohen dhe telefonatat heshtin: \u00c7far\u00eb po i largon f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nga prind\u00ebrit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pa e kuptuar, shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabime q\u00eb ftohin marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien dhe e zbehin d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr af\u00ebrsi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her\u00ebt a von\u00eb, shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr p\u00ebrballen me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin moment. F\u00ebmija anulon vizit\u00ebn. S\u00ebrish. Me shpjegimin se \u201ci doli di\u00e7ka\u201d, se ka shum\u00eb angazhime, se kan\u00eb detyra sht\u00ebpie pik\u00ebrisht at\u00eb fundjav\u00eb. N\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ast b\u00ebhet e qart\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb pranohet me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi: prindi \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb dik\u00eb tek i cili nuk shkohet me g\u00ebzim, por nga zakoni ose ndjenja e detyrimit. E ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, nuk shkohet fare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00eb e dhimbshmja \u00ebsht\u00eb se, thell\u00eb brenda vetes, shpesh dihet edhe arsyeja pse ka ndodhur kjo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, disa prind\u00ebr b\u00ebhen kritik\u00eb e jo mb\u00ebshtetje. Ata kan\u00eb v\u00ebrejtje p\u00ebr pothuajse \u00e7do vendim, japin k\u00ebshilla edhe kur nuk u k\u00ebrkohen, dhe \u00e7do vizit\u00eb e kthejn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim se si punohet, si rriten f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, si jetohet. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb streh\u00eb sigurie, sht\u00ebpia ngadal\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohet n\u00eb burim presioni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr mund ta identifikojn\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht momentin kur nisi largimi. Shpesh ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb drek\u00eb apo nj\u00eb mbledhje familjare, gjat\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs prind\u00ebrit, t\u00eb bindur se dinin gjith\u00e7ka m\u00eb mir\u00eb, harruan t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vet\u00ebdijesimi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb fillimi i ndryshimit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pa e kuptuar, shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabime q\u00eb ftohin marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien dhe e zbehin d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr af\u00ebrsi Her\u00ebt a von\u00eb, shum\u00eb prind\u00ebr p\u00ebrballen me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin moment. F\u00ebmija anulon vizit\u00ebn. S\u00ebrish. Me shpjegimin se \u201ci doli di\u00e7ka\u201d, se ka shum\u00eb angazhime, se kan\u00eb detyra sht\u00ebpie pik\u00ebrisht at\u00eb fundjav\u00eb. N\u00eb at\u00eb \u00e7ast b\u00ebhet e qart\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":85,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-shendetesi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=84"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":86,"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84\/revisions\/86"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/85"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=84"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=84"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arttmedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=84"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}